You Don't Say A blog by Demetria McNeal, PhD

Do you find you are often misunderstood? Or do you have to say, “I did not mean it that way” more often than you care to? Or you feel others “twist your words?” Well, you are not alone. Many of us do not communicate very well. We talk a great deal, but not necessarily communicate.…

Stingy. Fat. Smart. Dependable. Felon. Reliable. Thief. Funny. Charismatic. Clingy. Nice These are not just words. These are judgements we make about ourselves or others or have even been made about us. You see, we all judge. That doesn’t make it right, but it does make it a real issue that most of us do…

You set goals in many areas of your life. Exercise goals. Professional goals. Financial goals. Relationship goals. But how often do you think about communication goals? Yes, that is a thing! Think about the number of times that you had a plan in mind for how a conversation would go, and when it was over…